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What do intended parents usually look for in a surrogate?
In this Ask a Surrogacy Expert video, Bright Futures Families team member Janelle discusses what intended parents typically look for in a surrogate—from communication and reliability to shared values and compassion—and how these connections help create strong, successful matches.
Why can’t I be on Medicaid and be a gestational carrier?
Jenn explains why gestational carriers can’t be on Medicaid or other government assistance programs. Learn what every surrogate and intended parent should know about insurance for a surrogacy journey before getting started.
Can I apply to be a gestational carrier if I am currently breastfeeding my child?
While you can apply to become a gestational carrier if you're still breastfeeding your own child, you'll need to be completely finished weaning before starting your surrogacy journey.
What if the intended parents die during our surrogacy journey? Am I responsible for the baby?
Legal documents will ensure that gestational carriers are not responsible for the intended parent's baby in the event of their death during their surrogacy journey.
Why can't I be a gestational carrier if I've had the Adeana or Assure procedure?
Danielle explains why it could pose a risk to a surrogate pregnancy if the gestational carrier has had the Adeana or Assure procedure.
Is the surrogate the biological mother of the child?
Gestational carriers with Bright Futures Families are not the biological mothers of the babies they carry. Watch Ashley’s video for more info!
Will I have to travel a lot as a gestational carrier?
While it’s hard to quantify “a lot'“, Amanda explains what potential surrogates can expect throughout the journey.
How do intended parents finance surrogacy if they don't have the cash on hand?
Most people don’t have the extra cash on hand to fund a surrogacy journey. Find out what options are available to intended parents and creative ways others have financed their surrogacy journeys.
What could slow down the clearing process from the GC side?
The gestational carrier’s timeliness on paperwork, medical workups, etc. can be a factor in how quickly the journey progresses.
What can intended parents do with their leftover frozen embryos?
It’s up to the intended parents what to do with their remaining frozen embryos after their surrogacy journey. Callie shares some of their options.
Is it ok to surprise my intended parents with bump pics?
Bump pics to intended parents—Yes or No? Amanda has the answer!
Do I have to pump breastmilk for my intended parents?
Danielle explains whether surrogates are required to pump breastmilk for intended parents after the birth. Like many of our answers, there is a bit of nuance.
Does your surrogacy agency send out 1099s to your surrogates?
Since gestational carriers are compensated for their time, it’s understandable that there would be questions about the potential effect on their taxes. Find out from Ashley whether Bright Futures Families sends out 1099 forms to surrogates.
What is the normal visitation for after the baby or babies are born?
Great question! We would love to tell you about visitation after the surrogate baby is born.
Can I become a surrogate if I've had my tubes tied?
Are you worried that having your tubes tied or removed would disqualify you from becoming a surrogate? Find out whether you need to worry.
Is it required that I have had a previous pregnancy before I can become a surrogate?
Jenn explains whether surrogates are required to have had a baby in order to be a surrogate and the reason behind the answer.
Directly after the surrogate baby is born who is the baby handed to?
Have you ever wondered who the surrogate baby is baby handed to after delivery? Callie has the answer!
How often do both intended parents want to be in the delivery room? Do they ever ask for others to be there too?
We often get asked whether intended parents are the delivery room with the surrogate. Amanda has the answer!
A psych screening seems scary. What is involved in that?
The thought of a psychological consultation before a surrogacy journey can be intimidating. Danielle explains what it entails and what surrogates and intended parents can expect.
Is hair dye safe during pregnancy? If so, which types, and when is the safest time to use it?
Ashley talks hair dye and pregnancy, including when would be the safest time to dye your hair.